I've just finished watching a Cerekarama on TV3. It was about a relationship in a marriage...how a gal who was so afraid of loving a man due to her bad experience with her parents, which led her into being an egoist and how a man's true love can change him from a playboy to a devoting husband. Sounds normal? Well, i liked it not just becoz the hero is handsome (hehehe!) but becoz it's direct and does happen to ordinary people like us.
I, for one will not be the best to talk about marriage, coz mine failed halfway, but its just so much positive things about marriage that Allah has shown thru the Quran and our Rasulullah s.a.w. Its a training ground for unselfishness, giving, love, ikhlas, understanding, trust, honest, companionship and so much more...Can you imagine other better training grounds than this?? Then there's all the little people we bring to the world....SubhanAllah, what is it not to love about marriage!! Of course, not all marriages are made in heaven, but then again......
At this age of mine (late 30's), I miss the sharing and companionship the most (minus the you know what!). You know, when u share all your happiness, achievements, sorrows, plans and memories with your other half esp. concerning your family and friends. Also, on how we gradually transforms to become better Mom, Dads and Muslims. I guess, that's when having the other half of us is a blessing. Its like writing the nice-to-have list for your own review. That brings my memory to the famous verse, "YOU COMPLETE ME" from Jerry McGuire, which sums up everything of the above...
So, you gals out there...GO GET MARRIED!!... We plan, but ALLAH knows best!!!
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