Amanah Allah....

Marriage is an "amanah" from Allah Taala... A test to human existence.. One will succeed with iman and patient, or fail halfway, due to a lot of reasons and excuses.

Today, i witnessed somebody close to me with another woman..... How could this happen? His wife is such a nice and beautiful lady. They were so happy together, or at least they look happy to me! I felt sick inside....this cannot be happening to my friend. Then i found out the worst....yes, they are in a midst of a divorce because of this 'another woman'!!

How so fragile a marriage can be, when we fail to understand the very reason and initial intention of the marriage, in the first place. My heart cries for her, along with her 4 children...

I pray to Allah, that He bestows upon her courage, patient and redha in facing this situation... Ameen!

Like I once felt.... no woman should feel the hurt that she's going thru right now. But then again, Allah knows best...

Wajiha Balqeesh...an intro..

My no. 2 gal, Wajiha Balqeesh, known to friends and family as just Balqeesh. She's 7 years young, born on the 26th April 2001.  The smallest among the 3 gals, although she eats more than her sisters...hmm, very active metabolism rate, this one!!

Monday blues..yet again...I'd spare sometimes to update my blog.....

My eldest brother, Abg Yazah is back from Oz for his data collection (he's doing his PhD). The gals were excited, although none of their cousins tagged along. His presence alone is enuff to ease their feeling of missing them...They are very close to their Mak Long (my sis-inlaw) and the children. InsyaAllah...with rezeki from Allah, we will see them in Oz.....

We followed Pak Long (to my gals) to Beranang, to visit Mak Long's family. It has been quite sometimes since i was there...Met K.Biah, Abg Din and their children. Then, we stopped by at Cik Ani's (maks best friend) house, but she was not in...instead we met Tono, the handy guy who had helped us doing carpentry job in our house. He is now doing some job with Cik Ani.  He's very helpful and has good workmanship....i would recommend him to friends and relatives, anytime. 

By this time, d gals are already restless and hungry....since Pak Long has missed Malaysian food for quite some time now, he brought us to Satey Hj. Samuri...Alhamdulillah....the food was good plus the nice ambient. One thing though, that kills my patient, is the surau...Its just unacceptable for such a big place to have a unventilated and hot surau....I actually complaint to the cashier, thus i hope she act on it....fast!!!

The gals were exhausted when we reached home...just on time to accept some guests......

Then come Sunday, we received few calls from friends of d gals from Darul Hikmah, wanting to come over with their families.  My sis-inlaw's family too came...so it's cooking time to entertain the guests.  I made spaghetti and broccoli salad for them..D gals enjoyed their friends company, showing-off their room and toys. We had Hidayah, Husna, Munirah, Amy, Dina, Nik Amar and Iman  and their parents to our house.... When everybody had gone home, i felt the stiffness in my body... But above it all, i thank Allah for the guests and rezeki that i shared with all of them. 

The children at Darul Hikmah are very close to each other, due to the small amount of students.  The positive side of it, is that we know their parents as well. Thanks also to the Kelas Ugama, provided by the school, for parents, it ties the bind stronger.  InsyaAllah, i will share some inputs from Kelas Ugama in my other posts.

 

Wardia Basyeera...the eldest of the 3 sisters

My eldest, Wardia meaning "a rose" and Basyeera which is "one who brings good news" in Arabic. Yes, its exactly true in my case. She is the good news, when my marriage was in its turmoil stage.

She was also called the "rosy cheeks" by the doctors and nurses at the hospital where she was born. Alhamdulillah, now the rose is 10 yrs young...how time flies!!

She's intelligent, speaks her mind and love to please others....with of course her tantrums, sometimes bad tempered and thinks that her mom is filthy rich! Sometimes I think she knows what happened between me and her dad, but rather not talk about it. Remember girl...whatever had happened is none of your faults. Me and Abah Loves you so very much.

I pray to Allah that she will become strong in the heart and mind, successful in life and akhirat, will work towards becoming Allah's servants and strive to help others in need. So that she will be filled with love by all....InsyaAllah!

UMI LOVES YOU.............

It's 11:55 pm now...tired, but not sleepy! 

This has been a bz weekend for me n d gals....Basyeera had a sleep over at her freind's (Izzah) house, 2 hari raya visits for me n her sisters, kelas ugama resumes after the Raya break, d gals had their xtra classes.... Malaysians have not gotten over the Raya mood...although we shuld actually give it break..... in my humble opinion...

I managed to do some wet groceries shopping at the wet market today, thus cleaning the seafood is a chore since Su, my maid is on leave today....

After Asar...i started cooking, for dinner...It's kind of special..ehheeehhee..i made beef and lamb steak + broccoli and potatoe salad (yummy, got the recipe frm You-Tube!) + mushroom stuffed + black pepper sauce (homemade, my watever recipe..!). No special guests, just me and d gals + my brother and his wife. SUddenly , it popped us that we miss Mak... She's still in Kkangsar since the Raya holiday....MasyaAllah...gud food without her.....tak bestnyer!!!

Well...its gonna be work as usual tomorrow...... I wish for another day off....

Why Mamma Mia!

Last Saturday, after Eidulfitri, I took the gals to The Gardens to watch a movie.  First time at the mall...very nice, classy boutiques n all..Once at the movie theatre, i asked for 4 tickets to watch MAMMA MIA.... Initially, the gals were not very keen, but since there were no other gud choice, they had to agree. 

And..i was shocked when the sales gal asked for RM80 for all the tickets...Wow! mahalnyer, was my remark...She xplained that this movies theater is premeir bla bla bla.... Ok lah...i paid and we were in our business-class-seats....this will be my fist and last time here..i told myself.

The movie was great, the gals loved it, although the song frm ABBA were years back...They really enjoyed it...On the way home, we were like singing away to the tunes of ABBA...Dancing Queen...Mamma Mia...Money Money Money... It just brings back memories of the young days..

So...its still MAMMA MIA mania at home...until it resides.....

First time...first..

Assalamualaikum.......

MasyaAllah....i'm blogging...

My second attempt at it now, i hope it's gonna be for a very long time. Well, it's not easy to stay istiqamah..

My intention for this blog is just to express my inner thoughts about the world surrounding me, especially my gals, my work, my hobbies, friends and colleagues and things i love to do...insyaAllah. 

One day, when I'm no longer in this world..my gals can go thru this blog to perhaps understand their Ummi better....hhmm i wonder!!